Hello friends,
I’ve been thinking a lot about this quote from Toni Morrison about the situation in the US: “In this country, American means white, Everyone else has to hyphenate." It came to mind again when Mitch McConnell said: “if you look at the statistics, African American voters are voting in just as high a percentage as Americans”. In other words, among many whiteness is the presumed default for American-ness.
Defaulting to Whiteness
The situation is much the same in the UK, where Britishness is often presumed to be synonymous with whiteness. The number of times I’ve seen a look of surprise when I say I was born in Streatham, London, is just one example.
(To be fair, in Black majority countries in the Caribbean, it’s the paler people who get the qualifier, but the nuance is different, because they are still the people with the financial power. In global minority spaces, the primacy of whiteness comes with real consequences and dangers to those being oppressed, from lack of opportunity all the way up to death.)
How Black People are Often Perceived
Getting back to global minority spaces, to be other than white can be met with underestimation of one’s capabilities and over-estimation of one’s threat level. For example, former British MP Nusrat Ghani says her “Muslimness” is the reason she was sacked.
I probably don’t need to tell you, especially if you’ve been reading this newsletter for a while, that this is all about white supremacy. There’s a not-so-hidden bias towards whiteness as the norm and the default, which shows up not just in the political sphere, but in other aspects of everyday life.
In what Michelle MiJung Kim (see my review of her excellent book “The Wake Up”) the criminal punishment system, it’s the reason Black boys with toy guns are treated differently than white boys with real guns (no, I’ll never get over that!). It’s the reason people of the same age are treated as misguided boys or threatening men depending on the color of their skin.
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In shops, it shows up as who’s automatically followed around stores and who’s not presumed to have the wherewithal to buy expensive items. (Hint, they tend to look like me.) In the workplace, it shows up as who’s seen as professional and capable despite mediocrity, and who’s seen as not a team player and not up to standard despite excellence. Again, the latter tend to look like me.
Not only is whiteness the presumed default, but society is set up to accept what comes from whiteness as good and worthy, even if it clearly isn’t.
Now, Black people could, with some justification, make assumptions about what happens whenever they (we) come into contact with whiteness. After all, it hasn’t gone that well from the very beginning. But honestly, whiteness has no justification for discounting the Black people whose ancestors were enslaved and brutalized, other than in the service of maintaining whiteness.
What Allies Can Do
As allies, it’s important that you recognize when you’re operating out of whiteness and stop doing it. The excuse of unconscious bias can only be used for so long. We know it happens, so it’s time to bring it to our awareness, check ourselves, and do better. Because if we’re going to move forward, humanity (which we all share), rather than whiteness, has to become the default.
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Thanks for reading,
Sharon
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I've begun to use European-American interspersed with "white"... The term (Euro-Am) actually alerts entrenched whites to a new way of thinking. Unhooking from a whiteness mindset is interesting even for those of us who identify white and who are social justice advocates. Euro-americans can only really experience/witness bias when we leave this thing that I call The Power Center of white supremacy. Integration brings the Euro-american into direct contact with this slippery experience of bias in white-supremacy. If people who identify white remain segregated, they don't really understand how bias or racism is experienced in the world. They might think they're anti-racist and might behave in anti-racist ways, but the individual remains contained in a heirarchy of white supremacy. Part of my work is to usher Euro-Ams toward authentic integration with the world. I love seeing the look on a face the moment they realize they're free. It's deeper than an "A-ha!" moment. The privilege is integration.
Ms. Hurley-Hall, I mentioned to my wife Mitch McConnell words and she immediately grasped what he was implying. It took me several takes before I saw the significance. I guess that says something about being a white person or being a black person. I read how Ms Jo- Saebo responded- by changing how she referred to herself. Using the term (Euro-Am) actually alerts entrenched whites to a new way of thinking. Her words not mine. In my comments I have started to referring to black people as exactly that- a person due all the right of any other person regardless of race. It's a very small step- I doubt if anyone has noticed- I know I probably would not have noticed it. All I know is a couple of years ago, I would never have thought to have done it. I know this is a painfully small gesture, Ms. Hurley, you may say my efforts are insignificant, and you may be right. All I can say is," the longest journey starts with the first step."
All I know is you are a very powerful writer. Your writing has caused me to reflect on my thoughts and actions and have found them wanting.