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Why I’m Not Watching Any More Videos of Black Death

Who needs any more pain?

Sharon Hurley Hall
May 23
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Note: I wrote this before the white supremacist killing of Black people in Buffalo, but I could have written it at any time in the last few years. More Black people dead, another white killer being arrested safely, when a Black person in the same situation would already be dead. Still more evidence that Black lives don’t matter to many. More heartbreak, more trauma. When will it end?

Hello friends,

The other day I was scrolling through my Twitter feed when I saw someone saying: “Oh my word, not another one.” I scrolled a little bit further, and I soon found the name of another young Black man who had been shot by the police. I did a little bit of googling, learned a little bit more about the incident and had a brief moment of mourning.

You know what I did NOT do?

I didn’t go and watch the video. And I may never watch another of those videos again. Here's why I feel that way.

There’s Nothing New to Learn

First of all, watching the video is not going to tell me anything new. I have already seen too many of them, even though I never seek them out. I can never unsee the video of George Floyd being brutalized, or the video of Rodney King or any of the videos I've seen over the decades. And I have a healthy imagination. I honestly never need to see another one to understand what it feels like to see untrammeled violence being visited on the bodies of Black men and women.

No More Trauma

The second reason is that it's traumatic. Every time you see another of those incidents, it adds to the decades of trauma and the generations of trauma that people who look like me have experienced. And it brings up my own personal experiences of racism, which were painful enough the first time round.

While I'm on the subject please don't make it part of your allyship journey to send me videos of these incidents, just so I know you’re aware of what’s happening. I already know. Aside from videos of Black people being killed, I don't need to see videos of Black people are being treated badly, of Black people being called the N word. I don’t need video evidence of any of those things. I have lived most of those myself. I have friends and family who have done the same. We have talked about it.


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So, if you find those videos fascinating, go ahead and watch them and keep them to yourself. But don't send them to me. If you want to bring something to my attention, it is enough to ask if I saw the news about whatever the name or incident is. I know how to use Google. I will find the details in a form that I can easily consume while avoiding the graphic videos, such as a news story with still images, or no images at all.

Protecting My Peace

There’s so much going on that I don't see every news story of brutality against Black people out there. The scale of it is awful, but I’m glad I don’t see it all because I think the tide of negativity would overwhelm me. As Black people, it is important to protect our peace and well being. In choosing not to watch any more of those videos, that's exactly what I'm doing. I already know and feel the brutality viscerally. I don’t need it seared into my eyeballs. There's only so much pain a person can cope with.

Global majority people, what's your take on this? Are you still watching the videos of Black people dying? Or are you also protecting your peace?

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As always, this is my personal opinion. Others may disagree, because we are not a monolith. Thank you for reading.

Sharon

Keep Reading…

P.S. Here’s a small selection of the incidents that I’ve already written about in this newsletter:

  • No, U.S. Cops, You DON'T Have a License to Kill (Daunte Wright)

  • Sleeping While Black Can Get You Killed (Breonna Taylor and Antwan Gilmore)

  • Guilty, Guilty, Guilty (Ahmaud Arbery)

Image credit: Getty images: Larry Washburn

© Sharon Hurley Hall, 2022. All Rights Reserved.

I am an anti-racism writer, a professional B2B writer and blogger, and co-host of The Introvert Sisters podcast.

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chris custer
Writes chris’s Newsletter May 25Liked by Sharon Hurley Hall

Ms. Hurley-Hall, I was abit taken aback when you said," There is nothing new to learn." You see, learning new things is my passion. But in the next few line you narrowed it down to only as it pertains to police violence and racism. These situations reoccurr over and over again. I don't know why specifically white people keep watching, but I do have a theory. Big Media that sensational stories and even better, videos sells copy or buys airtime. They know what works and give the viewing or listening audience wants.

I'm with you, Ms. Hurley-Hall. I don't watch these types of videos anymore. I think both our motives are that viewing these videos causes emotional pain. In your case they bring up painful, even traumatic memories of things you personally experienced. While have not effected personally, like you, I do feel the pain. The type of pain that comes from these videos bring up the grim and painful realization that racism is omnipresent, it penetrates everything in our society, it's almost a self-fufilling prophecy. I feel pain from the realization that racism constantly reminds of one's inhumanity to our fellow human.

Ms. Hurley-Hall, what I am afraid of is if white people don't learn from the repetition of these scenes, they are condemned to repeat these scenarios again and racism will perist in its present form.

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Mitchell Allen
May 24Liked by Sharon Hurley Hall

I agree 100%, Sharon. I'm already overwhelmed with a sense of hopelessness for this ravaged country. For me, goes even deeper: I can't stand to hear or read about daily mistreatment. For one thing, nobody is doing anything about them. For another, it puts me in an unhealthy mental state. My wife used to feel the need to share this poison with me every day. I guess I was not articulating my feelings well enough until one day, I blurted, "Let me find a bucket of shit and stick your feet into it, see how you like it." I think she got the message.

I try to squint through my Twitter feed and when that doesn't work, I stay off of it until it's time to post my Wordle. I do not watch television news, so that's one less source of angst.

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